Youth Boys Code of Conduct

Youth Code of Conduct

Summary

Our Code of Conduct for Lincoln Boy's Youth Program is to help clarify the set of expectations we have for players and potential next steps to take if a player habitually commits violations at practice or games.

PLAYER CODE OF CONDUCT

Players must adhere to the following rules:

1. I will "HONOR THE GAME" of lacrosse by practicing good sportsmanship at all times.
2. I will learn the rules of the game of lacrosse.
3. I will follow the spirit and letter of the rules and regulations of the game as imposed by IBLA officials.
4. I will refrain from engaging in unsportsmanlike conduct.
5. I will refrain from performing disrespectful or harassing acts on the field, as well as through other channels, such as social media. 
6. I will treat my coaches, opposing coaches, peers, and competitors with respect. 
7. I will refrain from the use of profanity, poor sportsmanship, and hazing.
8. I will be a positive role model in terms of attitude, appearance, and behavior.
9. I will treat facilities and equipment with care and respect. 
10. I will follow, trust, and commit to the decisions of the coaches.

Unsportsmanlike Conduct: Unsportsmanlike conduct is defined as a player, coach, parent, or spectator who at any time while on field or on the grounds of a lacrosse game or event conducts him- or herself in an abusive, offensive, or illegal manner during game situations or outside of game situations. This includes, but is not exclusive to the following:

1. Fighting
2. Causing property damage at an event site
3. Entering into an argument with an official as to a decision that has been made
4. Attempting in any way to influence the decision of an official 
5. Using threatening, profane, or obscene language or gestures at any time prior to, during, or after a game
6. Baiting, taunting, or performing any other act (including a play during a game) that is intended or designed to embarrass, ridicule, or demean others, under any circumstance or reason, including on the basis of race, religion, gender, or national origin

PARENT CODE OF CONDUCT

Parents should foster the goals of the program. Parents will not act in a way that demonstrates disrespect for the game officials, players, coaches, board members, or parents of our teams and or of any opposing teams.

Your Role as a Parent

1. Be a positive role model.
2. Show your child support, win or lose.
3. Exercise control over any negative feelings or emotions.
4. Be a supporter of the entire team, coaches, and Lincoln Lacrosse Board of Directors.
5. Respect the coaches and officials.
6. Communicate with the coaches in a positive manner.
7. Encourage your child to set goals and develop a plan to achieve his goals.
8. Recognize improved performance regardless of the game outcome.
9. Do not engage in unsportsmanlike conduct 
10. Never criticize or ridicule your child or any other players regardless of the circumstance.
11. Always ensure your child attends as many practices and games as possible and is on time.  
12. Always inform the coaches in advance if your child cannot attend a practice or a game via SportsEngine or otherwise. 
13. A player who misses a significant amount of practices may experience less playing time in games.
14. Be prompt in picking up your son after practice and games. 
15. Please contact the head coach if there is an emergency.
16. Do not coach your child during the game. 
17. Let players play and coaches coach, and support both positively.
18. Emphasize the FUN of the game and the team, and putting forth 100% effort at all times, regardless of the score or situation. 

LYL Next Steps for Violations of Code of Conduct

• At the discretion of the coaches, if a player is found to break the code of conduct during an LYL practice or game, our coaches retain the right to issue a referral to the Board regarding the players' violation.
• Parents/families will be notified of the referral with an email writeup about the violation.
• Each player has three 'referrals' per season. On the third referral the Lincoln Lacrosse Board will convene to discuss whether to remove the player for the remainder of the season.
• These referrals can also be applied to Parent behavior.